{"id":6793,"date":"2012-10-16T09:48:20","date_gmt":"2012-10-16T16:48:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/?p=6793"},"modified":"2021-10-18T16:07:22","modified_gmt":"2021-10-18T16:07:22","slug":"45-things-to-live-well-36-40","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/sole-significance\/45-things-to-live-well-36-40\/","title":{"rendered":"45 Things to Live Well (36-40)"},"content":{"rendered":"
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In this instalment of 45 Things to Live Well<\/strong> we look at a few things that can bring some healthy balance to our lives. \u00a0 Balance is not always the easy way through but also things that may cause us to stretch in healthy ways. \u00a0This balance is important. The Sufi mystic Rumi wrote, “Your hand opens and closes, opens and closes. If it were always a fist or always stretched open, you would be paralyzed. Your deepest presence is in every small contracting and expanding, the two as beautifully balanced and coordinated as birds’ wings.” \u00a0As Rumi states poetically, the balanced life is a rhythm of contracting and expanding. \u00a0 The Christian\u00a0Saint\u00a0Aidan of Lindisfarne speaks of this rhythm as well using the imagery of ocean tides. \u00a0He writes:<\/span><\/p>\n

L<\/span>eave me alone with God as much as may be.
As the tide draws the waters close in upon the shore,
Make me an island, set apart,
alone with you, God, holy to you.
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T<\/span>hen with the turning of the tide
prepare me to carry your presence to the busy world beyond,
the world that rushes in on me
till the waters come again and fold me back to you.<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

To this end, we wade into the next 5 practical ways to live well. \u00a0Remember these are a part of a whole life, a part of a Rhythm – your rhythm. With this, I am reminded of a song by Psalmist Kevin Prosch where he sings a lament to God when he cries “There is a harp in my heart but only you can play it!”<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Network with people<\/strong>. \u00a0With each new person, we meet we can learn something new, see something from a different perspective which can help us do what we do better. \u00a0It is also an opportunity to meet people who may have complementary gifts and skills that we can collaborate with. \u00a0Don’t confuse this with “schmoozing”. \u00a0Schmoozing is faking an interest in other people for solely self-seeking purposes. \u00a0 This kind of glad-handing will not often become authentic healthy relationships. \u00a0Be yourself, be honest and friendly and resist the temptation to perform.<\/span><\/li>\n
  2. Don\u2019t worry too much about what other people think about you<\/strong>. \u00a0Be careful not to get too caught up caring about what people who don’t care about you may think about you! \u00a0The reality is you can’t please everyone and by trying to do so you will wear yourself out fast! \u00a0 It can be helpful to consider credible critiques and then discern for yourself if a change is\u00a0warranted. \u00a0 If it is not, let it go!<\/span><\/li>\n
  3. Spend time with nice people who are smart, inspired, and like-hearted<\/strong>. \u00a0The reality is we cannot always pick the people we share life with. \u00a0Sometimes, some of these people can be life-draining instead of life-giving. \u00a0While it is important to be able to encourage others it is also important that we have some encouraging, inspiring people in our lives as well.<\/span><\/li>\n
  4. Exercise every day<\/strong>. \u00a0Physical activity is life-giving in many ways. \u00a0 Not only is it good for physical health but also for stress management and helps with clearer thinking. \u00a0Ideally, it could be something you enjoy doing regularly, that gets your heart rate up, puts a smile on your face, but simply taking regular, long, relaxing walks can have a positive effect. \u00a0Take care of yourself, be good to yourself!<\/span><\/li>\n
  5. Let go of things you can\u2019t change.<\/strong>Concentrate on things you can<\/strong>. \u00a0Learning this lesson can be tough for many (yours truly included). \u00a0I am convinced this is a grace to do this well. \u00a0Remember the prayer written by Reinhold Niebuhr: “God grant me the serenity \u00a0to accept the things I cannot change;\u00a0courage to change the things I can;\u00a0and wisdom to know the difference.”<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"In this instalment of 45 Things to Live Well we look at a few things that can bring some healthy balance to our lives. \u00a0 Balance is not always the easy way through but also things that may cause us to stretch in healthy ways. \u00a0This balance is important. The Sufi mystic Rumi wrote, “Your…","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":1831,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[33],"tags":[58,63,81,129,167,290,487],"class_list":["post-6793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-sole-significance","tag-authentic-living","tag-balance","tag-busy-life","tag-daily-living","tag-everyday-spirituality","tag-integrity","tag-spirituality-of-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6793","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6793"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6793\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1831"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6793"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6793"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iamsignificant.ca\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6793"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}